I was told a long time ago that never have a threesome with your friend. I never mind it, because I have never had 3som with my friends before and I think I can hardly find the chance. So I didn’t take it seriously, until the time comes.
I am a married woman who have been married for 8 years. My husband and I established an open relationship a year ago, just to keep things fresh. We would invite people over to have couple dating occasionally. Those people are usually strangers we meet at different places, such as a bar, club, gym, or a café. We are very open with people and honest with our hookup relationship status. When we meet someone we are interested, we would be honest with him/her and ask if they are interested. Therefore, it is not hard for us to find like-minded people. We never think of inviting our friends, because we don’t have to and we know there are risks. There is no need for us to do that when we have so many options out there.
I have a best friend from high school. We have been besties with each other for years more than I am married. I cherished that friendship, and so does she. We would get together for at least once a month. My family knows her very well. My kids call her aunt Lily. She was getting a divorce with her husband. We went to shopping together and after that, I invited her over for dinner. My kids were staying at their grandpas, so we poured some drinks. It got a little high for all three of us. We started to share our life experience. Of course, it was mainly about our swinger lifestyle and the fetlife we had. We talked so much about it and Lily was really interested. It was her who suggested that we should have a threesome. My husband and I were both hesitated and wasn’t sure if it would be a good idea. She really wanted it. She was about to be divorced and we thought she might use some fun. We were too close and we were all very sure it wouldn’t do anything to our relationship. So we reached an agreement.
That night, we had a threesome. It was very strange and uncomfortable to go down on a woman who I know for years. We were all drunk back then, so we got over it anyway. The next day we woke up, to be honestly, it was a little weird, but we pretended to be normal. After she left, I told my husband that it was totally wrong to have threesome with her. I didn’t feel right that morning.
The next time I saw her was three months later. We didn’t talk to each other since we had that threesome. I was worried about her, because she was going through a hard time. I asked her out for a long talk. After that talk, I felt so much better, but it wasn’t be the same between us. It is just not right. I wish we never had that threesome.