Let me make a confession: I'm John, 26 years old, and a P.E teacher in high school in New York. Ever since I have had sex for the first time in my life, having a threesome dating has always been on the top list of my sexual fantasies. But back then, living a swinging lifestyle was still considered as taboo. Then you might argue with me by saying taboo is the word for those narrow minded people. However, it is the undeniable truth that living in a civilized world means you have to obey some rules whether you like or not, even it sometimes against your desires. Thus I had repressed my urge to put my fantasy of looking for a three way partner into practice. Till the day, I met my third girlfriend, Jenny, who is completely a freaky. She was the kind of girl that every guy wants to flirt with cute, fun, smart and flirty. But not necessarily want her as a girlfriend: bisexual, freaky and way too flirty.
However, for some reason, we were together. I remember it was a night where we just had sex, she randomly brought up having a three way sex. I wasn't necessarily surprised, since I already knew she's the swinger kind of girl who's into bisexual dating, polyamorous dating and freaky dating. And of course, as tinder threesome is on every guy's bucket list, I immediately said yes. But looking for threesome means in search of a three way partner. Here’s what we did in order to plan a perfect threesome, which worked out pretty well.
I started from the powerful internet. At that point, surprisingly, already exist some couples dating apps which cater only to couples seeking women, women seeking couples as well as couples seeking couples. On the tinder for threesomes dating sites, I found a lot of like minded people who are into threesome, wife sharing and wife threesome. However, it is not as easy as it sounds to find someone who's really compatible. After encountering a few obstacles, Jenny and I figured out why. Here are a few notes that you will need to pay attention to: first of all, be open and straight forward about what you want threesome sex, making friends or polyamorous relationship. Don’t forget up write down your sexual fantasies, preferences, dislikes, fetishes on your personal page. If you are looking for someone, or a couple to connect with on a deeper level, it is strongly recommended to write down the characteristics that you appreciate in a person.
After you have found the seemingly perfect candidate online, don't rush directly to the point. Have a cup of tea together to meet him or her in person first!(even you are just looking to hook up or casual sex) Since the personal vibe is an essential part of a great threesome, which also help you eliminate the chance of your three way partner being a serial killer.
Good luck every swinger who is into kinky hookup, I will you all have a hot and steamy threesome experience.